My first name is Omolara, but that hasn’t always been the case. Originally, Omolara was my middle name until an unexpected twist when I was 11. My parents had entrusted me with the task of filling out the registration form for taking my final elementary school exams. I remember carefully completing the form, wanting to do everything perfectly. However, when the form was processed and the exams completed, my certificate came back with the order of my names switched. From that moment on, Omolara became my first name—a change that has stuck with me for over 30 years.

 

This name switch has not always been easy to explain, especially when faced with the discrepancies between “My Name in the Books” vs “My Name in Action.” While some might see this as a minor mistake, it has had significant implications for me. I’ve often noticed the confusion on people’s faces when they encounter this inconsistency. Despite this, I’ve retained ’bisi, a short form of Adebisi, as my preferred name in everyday life, while Omolara remains my official first name on all important documents—thanks to my mother’s early lessons on the importance of maintaining consistency in official records.

 

Life has a way of testing how we respond to mistakes, challenges, and disappointments. Especially ones that were foisted on us. However, with the right help and perspective, these experiences offer valuable lessons and opportunities for growth. This belief motivates me to consistently apply my four guiding principles—competence, commitment, compassion, and character—in both my personal and professional lives.

 

At the time of the name switch, I was too young to appreciate the bigger picture. As I grew older, I came to understand the meaning and significance of both names. They reflect my identity and the qualities I hope to be remembered for. Being born and raised in the Yoruba culture of southwest Nigeria, I learned that names are not just labels; they carry deep meanings and have the power to shape one’s identity. Omolara, for example, embodies the importance of kinship and family ties, highlighting the reverence for children and the communal values that are central to Yoruba culture. My love for hosting gatherings of friends and family, as well as my dedication to maintaining relationships, reflects this deep-seated community-mindedness.

 

Interestingly, I didn’t start out desiring to be a lawyer. In fact, law wasn’t even on my career radar. My journey into the legal field began when I recognized my struggles with mathematics, paving way for me to pursue legal education instead. This switch opened the door to a thriving public sector law career, allowing me to contribute to valuable initiatives in over 40 countries. It also gave me the opportunity to experience the diverse cultures, histories, food, and peoples of more than 20 countries that I have visited.

 

Life is full of surprises, both good and challenging. Another switch happened when my family made the decision to restart our lives in Canada. These twists and turns are helping me navigate fresh opportunities to make a meaningful impact on people’s lives. Panko Collaborative Law and Mediation has provided the platform for me to learn, grow, and contribute to Canada’s legal landscape soon.

 

Rest assured, when you walk through our door, we understand that life’s twists and turns have brought you to us. We’re ready to relate to the changes in your story and help you navigate them.